Grief · Joy

Are You Really Living?

               If you have followed my blog for any amount of time, you know that I write a lot about fear and refusing to live in fear of the unknown.  I try to embrace each and every day the way that Ben would have wanted us to, without being afraid of what may lie ahead. … Continue reading Are You Really Living?

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A Widow’s Reflection on the Nation’s Crisis…

I have reflected a lot the past two years on all I learned from Ben and about the ways that God prepared me for losing him before he was gone. And in the last few days I have read countless posts by people who are overwhelmed by the current situation in our country and all… Continue reading A Widow’s Reflection on the Nation’s Crisis…

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The world doesn’t have to be scary… unless we let it…

My kids and I aren’t sick, but with an extended break from regular school attendance looming in front of us we have been doing a lot of talking about what that means for us. I’ve always been super cautious when it comes to parenting. I limited my kids exposure to toxins and sugar and chemicals… Continue reading The world doesn’t have to be scary… unless we let it…

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Waiting for my life to begin…

Earlier this week I listened to my kids in the back of the car conversing about things to come in the months ahead… “I can’t wait until…”; “I’m not going to enjoy anything until…” and my mind started rolling backwards to moments that I had wished away from my life. Have you ever anticipated and… Continue reading Waiting for my life to begin…

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Not Alone New Affirmations…

Last week I had the privilege of guest posting at https://mistyoerther.com/2019/10/16/not-alone-new-affirmations-guest-post-tricia-thirey/?fbclid=IwAR2C3rSmYQelsy-BIanPCOO5rdVzseCpZ9i8Rkwz1bkOzWGWFGQ1Aa_ZHq8 If you didn't get a chance, take a minute to check out what God taught me last year through a few sticky notes!

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Remembering to hope…

I remember a few months after Ben died meeting another lady who had recently lost her spouse.  I was so thankful to have someone who understood my pain and could relate to this uncertain new world I was entering.  When she invited me to a young widows support group I jumped at the opportunity.  I knew early on that surrounding myself with people who not only understood my pain, but who had been there, would make all the difference in how I navigated loss...